The reconciliation sex, is it really beneficial?

That he sex It can be considered a lot of reasons is nothing new. But in this article we want to talk about the sex when used for reconciliation, as well as their pros and cons.

Content

• What exactly is sex for reconciliation?
• Things you didn't know about sex for reconciliation
  • It serves to say "I'm sorry"
  • The situation can get worse
  • It can become a problem
  • It does not serve to forget
  • Other peculiarities of this type of sex

What exactly is sex for reconciliation?

Surely you have ever discussed with your partner and, after the discussion, you have had sex. In general, That sex is called reconciliation sex, because it serves to finish culminate reconciliation (who had predictably started shortly before).

Usually, it is very passionate sex, since all the feelings found that have been released during the discussion together with those of the love and sexual relationship are mixed.

So much so that, for many people, the sex of reconciliation is one of the best that can be practiced, even arriving to have discussions to be able to have this type of sexual relationship later.

Today we are going to talk about some things and the pros and cons that exist with this type of sex.

Things you didn't know about sex for reconciliation

By its nature, this way of practicing sex has many elements and connotations that not always obvious and that should be known.

It serves to say "I'm sorry"

As you surely know (because you have ever done it), sex for reconciliation serves, very often, to ask for forgiveness. And, after a discussion, a distance between both parties is created, and it is not easy to know how to deal with pride. Sex can help us.

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However, you have to be clear that, even though you can use sex to say sorry, the truth is that no act will ever replace an apology, since this is the way to recognize that we have been wrong.

Therefore, sex for reconciliation can be a first step, but do not forget to really apologize after. That will strengthen your relationship much more.

The situation can get worse

Generally, sex for reconciliation is a sex that makes it feel very good, so we have already exposed previously. However, A sexual relationship that is not pleasant can also be given.

If this happens during sex for reconciliation, you can make The feeling of vacuum and anger chronifies The anger of the one already left before having sex. This happens, especially when the woman feels that she is the other person who has made a mistake.

As curiosity we will say that, according to the Chandigarh Medical Education Postgraduate Institute in India, 38% of women feel sexually unsatisfied in their marriage, and this can be quite dangerous when a relationship is balanced and last in the time.

Therefore, as far as possible, when you have sex for reconciliation, put your best to offer satisfaction (both physical and emotional) to your partner. This will reduce the risk that the anger from which you left.

It can become a problem

Obviously, it may seem that the reconciliation sex is a way to solve the problems of the couple, to the point that it is normally discussed by the fact that there is then sex of reconciliation.

It is clear that this is not a healthy relationship, no matter how much reconciliation. After all, there are only reconciliations where there are discussions. Therefore, In principle the least reconciliation, the better (because it means that the relationship is going on the right track).

In this sense, we recommend that, if the discussions occur very often, get effort to speak and improve the communication of the couple, in order to avoid this type of conflict. In some cases, even, it may be necessary to go to couple therapy.

It does not serve to forget

Finally, we must mention that The reconciliation sex does not serve to forget what has led to the fight at first.

It is true that the moment of passion and excite.

Therefore, again, good couple communication will be necessary to solve the problem and not allow it to be enquiste.

Other peculiarities of this type of sex

Some say it is better to have a talk about the points in disagreement between the couple after making love, since if you talk before having the sexual relationship, much of the attractive "animal" that has this type of sex can be lost.

On the other hand, after sex, we will have released a lot of Chemical substances in the brain that They will make us more predisposed to speak and solve the problem.

As you can see, the Sex for reconciliation It does not have to be something negative, it is often positive, but we should not use it as a weapon to "catch" the other, nor like the remedy of all the couple's ills, because this way we will do nothing but cover or hide the background problems of a relationship. Dialogue and communication should always be our first option, and if we solve our problems by this way, then, welcome is the sex of reconciliation!